||[Jun. 23rd, 2008|04:53 am]
The Spinster House
What a wonderful idea for a community!
I've always been happiest when I was one. In fact the truth of the matter is, the only time in my life I was ever lonely was when I was married. (I've been divorced for a LONG time - so I am hoping one horribly rotten marriage won't keep me out of the club)
The truth is I seem to do better on my own. I like having a cute little apartment decorated the way I want it to be decorated. I can eat what I want for dinner, I can watch the movies I want, (oddly enough I love chick flick movies.) I like having my own life. It's small and it's humble, but it's mine. I used to think it was because I was an only child. That because of that I needed my alone time more then other girls. Then I realized that I just really love my oneness.
The hardest thing for me is dealing with friends and family. Isn't it funny about how the people that have made the worst decisions and have "wrecked" their lives because the "needed" a man so badly that it didn't matter if it was the worst kind of man they were getting are the ones that are the harshest?
So hurray - I look forward to being a part of the house! .